This Blissful Race

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There is more to life than increasing its speed.

- Ghandi (via heywhysoserious)

(Source: sterlinggraves)

I should’ve said this to this manager who made me cry earlier. Yes, that’s right, he made me cry. I scheduled a talk with him regarding a possible role and he launched to a whole feedback sesh on how I shifted my priorities from working too much and too hard in the office to working on my non work stuff. I cried because he made me remember all the bad stuff that led me to decide to go after another life priority. He made me cry because I am not used to hearing bad stuff about how I work. He made me cry because I reacted to it. I wasn’t ready for a self-introspective session. I was there looking to move to another role. He was a manager, not my therapist. He doesn’t know the whole story and  was just stupid to accept his truth. I refuse to go back to my workaholic self. No. Not because I dress better and look better now means I dumbed down on my work. You should hear me in my calls! You should know the people I talk to! Ugh. One thing’s for sure, I will never work for him. I hate looking weak after I already went through so much. I hate being affected when the past is brought up. I don’t hate the old me but I just like the new me better.

I should’ve said this to this manager who made me cry earlier. Yes, that’s right, he made me cry. I scheduled a talk with him regarding a possible role and he launched to a whole feedback sesh on how I shifted my priorities from working too much and too hard in the office to working on my non work stuff. I cried because he made me remember all the bad stuff that led me to decide to go after another life priority. He made me cry because I am not used to hearing bad stuff about how I work. He made me cry because I reacted to it. I wasn’t ready for a self-introspective session. I was there looking to move to another role. He was a manager, not my therapist. He doesn’t know the whole story and was just stupid to accept his truth.

I refuse to go back to my workaholic self. No. Not because I dress better and look better now means I dumbed down on my work. You should hear me in my calls! You should know the people I talk to! Ugh. One thing’s for sure, I will never work for him. I hate looking weak after I already went through so much. I hate being affected when the past is brought up.

I don’t hate the old me but I just like the new me better.

You know what I see when I look at the future? Possibilities.

- me. just now. 

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What I’d Wear : The Outfit Database
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What I’d Wear : The Outfit Database

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I either eat too much or starve myself. Sleep for 14 hours or have insomniac nights. Fall in love very hard or hate passionately. I don’t know what grey is. I never did.

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I am a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal Woman,
That’s me.

- Maya Angelou  (via thatkindofwoman)

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Oh wow! This is awesome input, thank you! It explains a lot and I can include the RnR stuff to the changes I’m imposing on myself. Thank you so much!

Oh wow! This is awesome input, thank you! It explains a lot and I can include the RnR stuff to the changes I’m imposing on myself. Thank you so much!

Thank you Snap! That cheered me up a bit. I guess the whole weight perspective is an Asian parent thing that I can’t easily ignore. My mom made a comment about the obvious weight gain so when my pants were too tight today, I just lost it. :( anyway, I still do need to shed off a few pounds in time for the October races. I’ll look into flax seeds calories and benefits just to check if it’s a better sub to the chia. I really appreciate the input! :)

Thank you Snap! That cheered me up a bit. I guess the whole weight perspective is an Asian parent thing that I can’t easily ignore. My mom made a comment about the obvious weight gain so when my pants were too tight today, I just lost it. :( anyway, I still do need to shed off a few pounds in time for the October races. I’ll look into flax seeds calories and benefits just to check if it’s a better sub to the chia. I really appreciate the input! :)